Is character important in Love?

Many lessons are available to the one who listens and learns from the instruction of Wisdom as Love weaves a song of truth and shares the story of two destined for a greater story than the tellers ever intended and we the hearers are allowed to glean that which such truth provides for our own guidance and direction so that we may use these tidbits of treasure to purchase for ourselves similar stories in hope that we too may find that romance is available and capable of becoming more than we ever thought we were able to provide. 

In the essence of Love is the core attribute that

the intended lover of the heart is the beneficiary of the fullest measure that we are capable of providing in every aspect of our lives.  It is a self-less act of choice to love unconditionally and not demand satisfaction for a our sacrifice.  This is the true test of the choice, it isn't that we need to learn that love is to be worshiped, nor that love is to be sacrificed, it is for each of us to come to the knowledge that the power of love is only tapped into through a gift of ourselves to another for the purpose of their growth, their benefit in knowledge, and/or their ability to become all that they can be in the service that is true specifically for them both now and forever.  The realization  that unconditional love is a universal and ever-lasting truth that touches to the fabric of all realities and allows the lover to actually place his heart, desires, and dreams into the Way of All Things is the true power of Love for that alone allows the lover to change the conditions of the story and allow the story to flow from the beginning with that concept of continuity and ever present flow into the moment to give everything that just now felling of understanding and accomplishment.  

The character that we develop as a result of both experience and the personality that our brains are hard wired to be through genetics is useful for if we will enjoy each others company, if we will compliment each other as partners, and being opposites is very useful in that category, but character must not be a test for romance because when we choose to love unconditionally what we are saying is that no matter who they turn out to be good or bad, we will love them the same.  That is a love that I always wanted and never found, and the love that I offered and never yet has it proved to be enough to win the heart of the beloved.

So even though character isn't important to love, it may prove vital to drawing in the intended just as physical attraction plays a role in romance as well.  

This is important, as in my early years I didn't know anything about unconditional love, and when I learned I thought it should over rule everything else, but it isnt in itself designed for a two person romance, just the sustaining of another through the continued daily devotion of another.  So now I've learned that love is powerful, but romance is separate from true love, romance involves those things that Love overlooks, physical attraction, affection, desire, passion, stability (financial & emotional) and other such things that I never really considered and now must if I truly desire to not be alone the rest of my life.

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